I was married to this guy whom we have been together for 5 years we have a 3 year old daughter.
In mid last year I got sick most doctors couldn’t diagnose what was ailing me the last doctor we saw on December said it was all in my head since i had forgotten my past medical history records .this gynecological problems are hard to diagnose they need a good gynecologist or urologist
We had established a good business that used to pay most of our bills he had taken a loan to start the business.
I was managing the business the problem is he could go out with his friends drinking and he kept on he coming to pick money from the business or lets just say demanding money to avoid arguments I just give him because if I ever said no he will be like I started that business it’s my money after all.
I used to fuel his car, and whenever he would be caught drunk driving I was always the one to go bail him out
He needs money for whatever he wants I give to him
He usually goes out drinking with females at times he wouldn’t come back home
When I started falling sick he started showing me how he has these girls after him at some point he sent me pictures of himself with a lady he was fucking mind you the health condition I was finally diagnosed with is chronic .
He took another loan to buy a car despite how much I talked him out of buying a car maybe he should consider land
If I needed to go to hospital I had to pay for fuel and buy him some lunch and since that was the easy way out so that he could stay with my kid while I see the doctors
It then hit new peaks as he would easily go out for days and when he came back he always had this stories saying how much he has missed me and all the rubbish and I blindly believe him and even have sex.
My health deteriorated drastically loosing a lot of weight and also being in an emotionally draining situation
During the New year’s Eve I was to go home for the new year celebrations but he was so against it claiming that when I go home I will tell my parents what I have been going through and he will loose me I suggested he takes me now that he has a car he was like that’s too expensive the fuel and shopping mind you we had gone at his native home for Christmas I had never been home for 2 years he suggested he takes me out we go sort out issues and he talks his mind out I gave him the chance we went out.We got back home made plans of restocking my business and seeing a gynecologist coz I had an appointment too
The first day we got back home he came at past midnight then there were this phone calls which he would speak in his local dialect which he never knows I understand moreover, at that time I had pretended to be asleep when they were lustfully talking with another woman of how much fun he had(Mind you he had lied to me that day that he had come home late because of some business deals ge was trying to chase)
I was so annoyed, I had been fooled not once not twice, to make matters more worse he had not even settled for bare forty five minutes yet he was already all over with women again, I confronted him and out if anger he called me a dog, I slapped him hard in the face and took off he was a man and he was more fast, he followed me and as I had opted to rush out through the kitchen door he landed on me before I realise he was raining blows in me I had fallen down the kitchen table, I began to feel dizzy from his blows and not before long my hand felt the stiffness of the pan, I never thought twice,I grabbed it and hit him hard on the face he immediately fell down, blood was coming from his nose and mouth, I heard our little kid cry in the room but I just had to go,
Currently its almost a month I had ran away from matrimonial home,I worry most about my kid,I had changed my contacts, and even incase of anything he had never visited my home Am only worried of my kid, if he died or survived it concerns me the least,I know I may sound inhuman but whatever that marriage had shown me,,,I just hope I would one day see my child.
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